Hair and Helmets don't mix?

so i play as a goalie with a full helmet and i have no idea what to do with my hair. i usually keep it in a high bun when we are running but my helmet wont fit with it up like that. same with a pony tail. i tried to do a low pony tail but my teammates says it makes my look like a guy. i tried to leave it down but it gets all over and makes me really hot. help?